Month: November 2022

Women In Wellness: Raana Kashani Gregg of LUNAESCENT On The Five Lifestyle Tweaks That Will Help Support People’s Journey Towards Better Wellbeing

An Interview With Candice Georgiadis

Craft strong foundations for your business. Make sure to comply with local and state business and regulatory requirements. In many instances, if the correct basic steps are not fulfilled, the process may have to be restarted, costing you precious time and money.

As a part of my series about women in wellness, I had the pleasure of interviewing Raana Kashani Gregg.

Raana is the founder and president of LUNAESCENT — Clean Skin Labs, a company that develops and sells innovative skincare beauty products. Besides being an entrepreneur, Raana is a mother of two teenagers, an attorney, an inventor, and a health and wellness researcher and enthusiast. She is a problem-solver who is passionate about coming up with simple and elegant solutions to everyday annoyances through her various inventions, and she believes in good design, good science, sustainability, and practicality.

Thank you so much for joining us in this interview series! Our readers would love to “get to know you” better. Can you share your “backstory” with us?

Thank you for this opportunity! My background is pretty non-linear. I was born in Tehran, Iran. I first moved to the United States in the 1970s and started grade school not knowing English and without friends, which was pretty unsettling. After a year, my situation (and my English) had improved, but my parents decided to move back to Iran, a scenario that played out several times during my childhood, leading to fractured friendships and cultural whiplash. In 1978, after a year of US high school in Sacramento California, my family went back to Iran for summer vacation and got trapped there by the Iranian Revolution.

After finishing high school in Tehran (the year before my co-ed international school was closed by the religious police), I escaped to Paris where I studied French and immersed myself in the French fashion and beauty scene (and did some modeling) while waiting for my student visa to the US. After a year, I moved back to the US (to Iowa), then to Silicon Valley, California, where I finished college, went to law school, and graduated with JD from Santa Clara University. After training as an associate at law firms, I started my own solo law firm and worked for many years as a litigation and estate lawyer until I met my husband (also a lawyer) and decided to suspend my practice to be a full-time mother.

The early pandemic was my first downtime in a while, and I found myself reflecting creatively again. Since I was young, I have been a tinkerer and inventor. When I was trapped in Iran as a teenager, I had a diary/sketchbook where I recorded thoughts and inventions, but I had to traumatically burn it when my father heard that the religious police planned to raid our house for evidence of dissent.

It was in this mindset that I came up with the concept for LUNAESCENT (and three other inventions — stories for another day!). And like many inventions, the idea arose from personal need. As I’ve aged, my skin is drier and needs more attention. I had started a nightly routine of high-end lotions, serums, and oils, which helped, but I was having real problems with application: Expensive product was getting absorbed by my fingertips, oils and serums were dripping through onto the counter, and I seemed to always be touching my face which I dislike. I was also trying to diligently apply sunscreen, but this involved more face-touching which was a particular problem outside the house with unwashed hands. I tried to find devices to do the job of my fingers, such as silicone brushes or jade rollers, but neither was effective: Silicone brushes just move the product around and cause waste, and jade rollers are not well designed for application. So I sketched out my perfect tool and showed my husband. He was sure that it must already exist, so I challenged him to find it on the Internet. Three days later he admitted that nothing like my tool existed online. I won that bet, and LUNAESCENT was born! I filed for patent protection, began manufacturing, expanded the family of products to include complementary tools, located distribution partners, and the brand is now selling successfully in the US and overseas with plans to expand internationally.

Can you share the most interesting story that happened to you since you started your career? What were the main lessons or takeaways from that story?

I will answer this questions based on my recent business career, rather than my previous legal career. One story that comes to mind happened at the first beauty trade show I attended after launching my product — the massive “CosmoProf” in Las Vegas — where I reserved a small booth in the middle of the aisle in the skincare area (booth 13, my lucky number). My practical goal for the trade show was to expose LUNAESCENT to beauty insiders and experts to determine if my invention had real potential or was just a pipe-dream. The response was more encouraging than I could have imagined, with enthusiastic industry confirmation that I had effectively invented a new product category — the touch-free applicator — which generated some exciting “viral” buzz. One memorable moment in particular revealed the subtle and important support structures that exist between women founders. On the last day of the convention, a lovely and friendly woman stopped by my booth, complimented my products, and took the time to offer some great business advice. When I pressed for her background, she eventually confessed that she had presented her own products at the exact same small booth in 2019, ended up winning a deal on Shark Tank, and was now selling in tens of thousands of retail stores nationwide. That moment was genuinely eye-opening and inspiring — tangibly revealing the potential pathways to success for innovative products and determined founders. I’m looking forward to going back to CosmoProf in a couple of years and providing my own business advice to fresh aspiring beauty entrepreneurs (maybe at lucky booth 13!).

Can you share a story about the biggest mistake you made when you were first starting? Can you tell us what lesson you learned from that?

I chose the name LUNAESCENT because it means “becoming the moon.” In Persian and Asian mythology, a moon face represents beauty. Also, my product is designed as a multi-purpose tool to provide consumers with a more effective skincare routine which leads to more radiant skin, connecting “moon” and “radiance” themes. And I just loved the way it sounds. I checked the website domain name for LUNAESCENT and it was available. And I checked company names and found no conflict. But I failed to check how search engines might treat the word “LUNAESCENT” before rolling out the new company. It turns out that search sites like Google would automatically convert “LUNAESCENT” to “luminescent.” So, until I was able to raise our SEO ranking with organic backlinks, searches for “LUNAESCENT” would automatically convert the text of the query, leading to frustration and negative business impact when customers and partners simply could not find our website. The lesson for others is that when starting a new venture, try to carefully consider all aspects of your decisions because small and unexpected wrinkles can make big differences.

Let’s jump to our main focus. When it comes to health and wellness, how is the work you are doing helping to make a bigger impact in the world?

The pandemic was truly an eye-opener for me. It was deeply unsettling to watch the entire world brought to a standstill by a virus. Perhaps even more concerning is science’s prediction that the world will most likely witness dramatic increases in disease emergence and pandemics, and other existential issues, due to climate change.

As responsible citizens and entrepreneurs, we need to try to balance economic needs against the health of our planet. One way to help achieve positive goals is to minimize one-time use products. There is impressive industry movement, for example, directed to eliminating single-use water bottles. But there are many products, especially in the beauty field, that are designed as single-use and marketed for convenience.

I specifically designed LUNAESCENT to be a multipurpose, universal beauty tool with a long, multi-use life. Its many functions eliminate the need to buy multiple tools, and it is fully reusable, cleanable, and easy to maintain. Additionally, its touch-free design reduces one of the principal means of skin irritation and breakouts — touching our skincare products and our faces with our fingers.

Can you share your top five “lifestyle tweaks” that you believe will help support people’s journey towards better wellbeing? Please give an example or story for each.

1. Mental Health — I am choosing mental health as my first choice because it is the foundation for healthy lifestyles and wellbeing. Starting a new business, while exciting and fulfilling, is very stressful. During one particularly stressful period, I noticed I was literally forgetting to breath which was causing heart palpitations and headaches. I have since tried to be more mindful of how stress was affecting my body. I now have a daily routine to set aside a short period (up to 15 minutes, but as short as 2) to check in with myself, review and acknowledge the day’s developments, and plan the coming day. It is a mental reset that works wonders.
2. Physical Health — For me, physical health works in tandem with mental health. My best exercise routines are simple, consistent, and easily modified to daily circumstances. Any routine that is too fancy or restrictive becomes hard to maintain or becomes its own source of stress. When I travel, I take a yoga mat with me. The inevitable extra walking with travel counts toward exercise, and yoga keeps me flexible. When I’m back home, I return to my routine.
3. Nutritional Health — I believe mental, physical, and nutritional health are the underpinnings of wellbeing. Good nutrition results in a healthier and stronger body, which leads to a more active lifestyle, which leads to less stress: It is a positive feedback loop leading to improved quality of life. I cook at home and follow a vegetarian/vegan diet because it makes me feel better and is better for the environment. I always keep green or black lentils in the pantry. When I have limited time, I cook lentils with water and salt, chop up some red onion and parsley, squeeze lime on top, and add olive oil. It is a heavenly, creamy dish that can be made in 30 minutes with zero prep.
4. Community Health — The world-renowned Persian poet Sa’adi Shiraz said that all humans are limbs of one body. When one limb is hurt, the other limbs cannot remain at rest. I believe that being involved in our communities is essential to our wellbeing and the health of the community. So, right now, I volunteer my legal expertise for local non-profits at no charge.
5. Read Labels — Educate yourself about what you put in and on your body. Nutritional food labels are federally regulated, so there is good reason to trust them. But cosmetics and beauty products are less unregulated and it takes more work to figure out if claims are puffing or science. I am skeptical of fantastical marketing claims such as “this stone has healing properties.”

If you could start a movement that would bring the most amount of wellness to the most amount of people, what would that be?

I would love to start a movement around women’s education programs — not just 4-year college degrees, but education in a more holistic sense. I strongly believe that educating women about their contributions and worth, and elevating their strengths at a local and national level, will benefit society and result in stronger and more resilient future generations.

What are your “5 Things I Wish Someone Told Me Before I Started” and why?

1. There are many hidden costs in starting a business that do not reveal themselves until you are in the middle of your business plan. Make sure you factor in financial cushions to allow for samples, freebies, giveaways, and other marketing efforts, as well as any unexpected expenses.
2. Engage professionals, but make sure you do your own independent research and analysis before you make important business decisions. My goal is not to become an expert in every field, but to have enough relevant understanding to be able to determine whether I’m getting good advice or not. Also, try not to proceed with just one choice. Interview multiple professionals, and use comparative information to evaluate and make your best choice.
3. Craft strong foundations for your business. Make sure to comply with local and state business and regulatory requirements. In many instances, if the correct basic steps are not fulfilled, the process may have to be restarted, costing you precious time and money.
4. Determine whether you need to file a trademark and/or patent for your business and product. If so, engage the services of reputable intellectual property attorneys early in the process. Patents take a long time to be processed and can be quite costly. Plan accordingly.
5. It is important to have a vision and a “look” for your brand. “Branding” is not cheap. It would be nice to have a brand designer who can design your packaging, logo, website, and marketing efforts. However, for most startups, the cost is prohibitive. Look at similar products, study their concepts, and try to devise a vision that fits your brand. You can use platforms such as Fiverr and Upwork to hire designer for a fraction of the cost. If you decide to go that route, make sure to only use contractors who are certified as “pro” or have a high number of top-rated reviews.

Sustainability, veganism, mental health and environmental changes are big topics at the moment. Which one of these causes is dearest to you, and why?

I believe that these topics are interrelated, and I see them as a pyramid. Environmental changes, in my opinion, is the broadest layer and the foundation. We all need to take steps to ensure a stable climate and healthy environment. The other topics such as veganism and sustainability fold into this broader category, and are vital to helping reduce the effects of climate change. As an entrepreneur, I feel an extra responsibility of making sure my decisions do not exacerbate detrimental environmental impacts. Such concerns are why I designed LUNASESCENT to be a multipurpose and reusable tool, thereby reducing its carbon footprint.

If I had to choose, I will go with mental health. After seeing the devastating effect the pandemic, school closures, and forced and awkward remote learning had on my teenage children, I have become strikingly aware of the mental stress burdens being suffered these days by many of us. One of my first blog posts on my website was recommending taking a moment for yourself, to contemplate the day and recharge for tomorrow, as an essential daily routine.

What is the best way for our readers to further follow your work online?

The beauty and wellness industry is constantly evolving with new information and breakthroughs. My goal is to study the science behind the claims and separate the hype from the truth. I routinely update LUNAESCENT’s website and write new blogs on the latest wellness trends, research and developments, and how to achieve stronger and more resilient skin with the help of science and LUNAESCENT. My website is www.lunaescent.com; Instagram is @lunaescentskin; Facebook is Lunaescent.

Thank you for these fantastic insights! We wish you continued success and good health.

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Women In Wellness: Raana Kashani Gregg of LUNAESCENT On The Five Lifestyle Tweaks That Will Help… was originally published in Authority Magazine on Medium, where people are continuing the conversation by highlighting and responding to this story.

Leadership is a lifelong commitment to learning and listening to others. But, just as important is your loyal daily commitment to your own integrity and staying true to yourself

As a part of my series about women in wellness, I had the pleasure of interviewing Dominnique Karetsos.

Dominnique Karetsos is CEO and co-founder of Healthy Pleasure Group. With the goal of building a Sexual Health & Technology Economy for better education, innovation and investment in the industry, along with her co-founders, Dominnique has developed a purpose-built global infrastructure via the HPG ecosystem that will enable this to happen.

Dominnique has spent the last 20 years working with brands; launching products and services across the beauty, retail and health sectors in 40+ markets to help startups, market leaders and challenger brands increase their market share, distribution channels and investment opportunities through smart, ]strategic planning.

Having worked for major players such as L’Oreal, Lelo Group, Cutler and Gross and O Boticário, Dominnique’s career highlight to date is being a UN Delegate at UN Women CSW65. A truly humbling time to understand the fabric of our global pain points echoed in each country’s socio-political system — then meet, talk and be inspired by those making a change for all of our futures.

Dominnique is passionate about empowering women of all ages to understand more about Sex, Tax and Money, alongside creating good and smart businesses to contribute what she can in creating a better world through behavioural change. In essence, helping people everywhere understand that healthy pleasure is for everyone and sexual self fulfilment and sexual health must be more accessible, affordable and attainable.

Thank you so much for joining us in this interview series! Our readers would love to “get to know you” better. Can you share your “backstory” with us?

My name is Dominnique Karetsos, I’m the CEO and co-founder of Healthy Pleasure Group, a pioneering collective that seeks to define, reshape and revolutionise the sexual empowerment of all generations and pave the way for healthy sexuality and healthy pleasure for everyone.

Having spent my youth in both Greece and South Africa, I studied in Sweden and I’m now based in London, with the Group also holding offices in Barcelona and Los Angeles. I’ve worked in more than 40 markets globally, helping start-ups and market leaders across beauty, retail and health improve and increase their sales, marketing and distribution channels.

As women, when we have questions about our autonomy or our sexual health, we look for permission to even ask them. For instance, on the Greek side of my family the generation before me would never discuss money and business at the table and on my mother’s side, children were to be seen but not heard. So, you didn’t have a voice, a choice or an opinion. It’s interesting to understand the taboos our parents’ generation fought to dismantle so that we can create our own fibres, weave our own way. I myself have been through a crippling divorce, which left me bankrupt when I was forced to take the crippling economic blowback for my ex-husband’s decisions. I was left with nothing, not even a roof over my head. Today we have the Domestic Abuse Bill which covers economic abuse that was brought into the UK parliament in 2017 to support women, but back then I made my way through this enormous situation myself. That is why I am very proud to have recently been asked to be a member of the UK charity Surviving Economic Abuse, sitting on the Experts by Experience Group. I am determined to ensure that no other women need go through what I did and that everyone is made aware of the support that is out there for them.

Can you share the most interesting story that happened to you since you started your career? What were the main lessons or takeaways from that story?

I can give you one example of the state of the Sexual Health & Technology industry when I first joined it around eight years ago. I was working with an intimate health brand and we were trying to get a mainstream pharma category buyer to list a menstrual cup. To gain access to point of sales we had to get through the buyers, most of whom were men in their early 20’s. In order to make sure that the phone wasn’t just immediately slammed down on us, we bought the advertising space in front of a lead buyer’s parking spot for three months. When we eventually got him to answer our call, he said, ‘Where have I seen this brand before?’ those few seconds were critical in allowing us to start the conversation of how putting menstrual cups on the feminine hygiene shelves was going to make a positive impact to his bottom line, but most importantly change the lives of women. Perseverance and creative persuasion is often what we need to to thrive and get through to the naysayers.

Because, how does one communicate the need for a product that has no relevance to these young men? It’s not easy to explain to mostly male buyers that there is a difference between a tampon and a menstrual cup. Or that you pee in your pants after you’ve had a kid. Women have been categorically ignored and marginalised when it comes to our health needs. We had the products, but we needed a buyer who would listen to us.

It has been said that our mistakes can be our greatest teachers. Can you share a story about a mistake you made when you were first starting? Can you tell us what lesson you learned from that?

I had so many meetings where I was not supposed to say the word sex! The amount of Boardrooms and now parents’ Whatsapp groups I have previously been kicked out of, is insane! On one occasion I distinctly remember telling my bosses at a leading beauty company to invest in male grooming as the future of the beauty category and they dismissed me out of the boardroom. Now that male grooming is mainstream industry worth billions, it gives me more confidence to stand by my beliefs and hold fast on my convictions. This space moves quickly, but my experience gives me that competitive edge for future trends. Looking back on this now, thankfully we’ve come a long way.

As the CEO I am today, I understand that my role comes with leadership, accountability, mentorship and ownership of our mistakes & successes. It’s important to make decisions that are in the best interest for the company, our people and our partners. I see my biggest responsibility as committing to continuous learning and sharing my knowledge with those same people.

Let’s jump to our main focus. When it comes to health and wellness, how is the work you are doing helping to make a bigger impact in the world?

The work we do is intrinsically geared towards creating opportunities, products and education to support underserved communities and ultimately democratise sexual health globally. From supporting one client focus on improving access to STI testing for women in LATAM, to building a competitive advantage for a fertility tracking brand to position its new technology to educate girls and young women about their first menstrual cycle.

We want to enable the facilitation of innovative pleasure, insightful pleasure, investigated pleasure and ultimately, healthy pleasure — for everyone. Fortunately, I’m seeing a lot of changes and a collective effort, but we need to continue to normalise language around sexual health, a new way of dismantling taboos and stigmas. As these things are gaining momentum, policy makers will need to react, too.

From democratising sexual pleasure beyond binary understandings to removing stigma and barriers to reproductive healthcare, we refuse to accept the way things have always been. Ultimately, we built Healthy Pleasure Group to create behavioural change through three vital economic motors; Education, Innovation and Investment.

If you could start a movement that would bring the most amount of wellness to the most amount of people, what would that be?

Healthy Pleasure is a movement. We define Healthy Pleasure as sexual self fulfillment, a state of wellbeing generated by perceiving yourself as sexually healthy. It’s about having coherence between what you want, think and do in every aspect of your sexual life. Encompassing three core values of respect, intimacy and care, Healthy Pleasure is not related to sexual frequency or sexual activity. Even if a person doesn’t have sex, as long as they are happy with that decision, they are sexually self-fulfilled.

For me, it is all about agency. Agency over our bodies, our finances and our equalities within the societal and political constructs that we inhabit. I sat as a delegate for UN Women UK last year at the Commission on the Status of Women, which was an eye-opening, global view on what we all face across every fabric of our lives. For me, the understanding and mis-understanding of a woman’s autonomy starts with the moment you tick that box on a form to declare if you are a Mr, Miss, Mrs or Ms. It may sound small, but that one declaration can have a massive impact on the way our needs are prioritised, especially for women. As soon as we tick that box, a lot of assumptions are made and a lot of regulations automatically apply in your life that affect you. Access to childcare, pay disparities, our health and more. I hope that will change one day. But in the meantime, women, just like men, should have a choice whether or not to declare this imposed societal status. They should be informed about what it means.

So now I’m just Dominnique Karetsos. I don’t tick the box. If I have an app and it forces me to do it, I just don’t sign up.

What are your “5 Things I Wish Someone Told Me Before I Started” and why?

1. Time is not money. Time is time and we should learn to live recognising that it is an non-replenishable resource. You decide how much of it you want to dedicate to the things that bring you joy.
2. Energy is not woo woo. Where energy goes, money will come
3. No is a full sentence
4. When I have the confidence to ask for what I want in the bedroom I will have the confidence to communicate what I want and need in the boardroom
5. Leadership is a lifelong commitment to learning and listening to others. But, just as important is your loyal daily commitment to your own integrity and staying true to yourself

Sustainability, veganism, mental health, and environmental changes are big topics at the moment. Which one of these causes is dearest to you, and why?

Healthy Pleasure as a cause and a movement, of course. Our sexual wellbeing is the most innate human experience and it dictates how we relate to everybody and everything in our lives. With our children, our partners, our colleagues. How we move through the world. Healthy Pleasure provides a new lens on how we view ourselves and this can be a lens of confidence, empathy, kindness but it can also be insecurity, depression or trauma. Healthy Pleasure is a movement that everyone must sit up and take notice of.

What is the best way for our readers to further follow your work online?

You can follow me directly on LinkedIn, read more about Healthy Pleasure Group on our website www.wearehpg.com and sign up to our monthly newsletter that brings you the latest news and updates from across Sexual Health & Technology industry here.

Thank you for these fantastic insights! We wish you continued success and good health.

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Dominnique Karetsos: “Leadership is a lifelong commitment to learning and listening to others” was originally published in Authority Magazine on Medium, where people are continuing the conversation by highlighting and responding to this story.

Female Founders: Rhonda Swan of Unstoppable Branding Agency On The Five Things You Need To Thrive and Succeed as a Woman Founder

An Interview With Candice Georgiadis

Sometimes it feels lonely as an entrepreneur, just know that there are billions of other people out there doing the same thing. So, find yourself a network to tap into for the days that you feel like you’re completely alone.

As a part of our series about “Why We Need More Women Founders”, I had the pleasure of interviewing Rhonda Swan.

Rhonda Swan is the founder and CEO of one of the leading PR and branding companies worldwide — the Unstoppable Branding Agency. She works with CEOs, authors, speakers and conscious entrepreneurs to grow their personal and professional brands creating a defined google footprint, using top tier PR and media. With her vision to empower women, especially in business, Rhonda also hosts the “Unstoppable Women Entrepreneur“ show at NASDAQ. She regularly interviews female powerhouses who go against the stream and showcases their entrepreneurial journey. You can watch her show on Bloomberg, Fox Business, Market Watch and nasdaq.com.

Simultaneously, Rhonda also hosts the Rhonda Swan Show, which regularly gets over 1M+ views per episode! In her show, you get to listen to experts, thought leaders and changemakers from all over the world, who guide you into living not only purposefully, but to ensure that your entrepreneurial journey is purposeful, passionate and profitable! Her passion for female empowerment led her to creating a movement for female empowerment! She is the founder of Women Gone Wild, a community with the vision to empower women and to create a safe space for everyone to live authentically and speak their truth! The first edition of the book series was published in 2021 and quickly became a bestseller in multiple categories. This year, the second book — the Wealth Edition — was published to help empower you! Likewise, the book became a bestseller in multiple categories. For her work, Rhonda has landed coverage in print and broadcast outlets around the world, being featured in FORBES, Entrepreneur, INC. Success, Business Insider, ABC, CBS, NBC and CNN, Thrive Global, Medium & Buzz-Feed.

Thank you so much for doing this with us! Before we dig in, our readers would like to get to know you a bit more. Can you tell us a bit about your “backstory”? What led you to this particular career path?

I grew up in Detroit as an athlete kid who wanted to run a large corporation. So, I went through university and through my master’s degree, and then landed a job with a Fortune 100 company.

I moved to California and worked with the best companies in the world, like Philip Morris and GlaxoSmithKline on marketing, branding, and really showing how companies can touch the masses with their brand.

Ten years later this led me to making a big decision to quit my job to become an entrepreneur. And the main reason was — I watched a woman put her six-week old baby into daycare and I vowed to myself that I would never do that, I didn’t want to put my daughter in daycare.

This is the time when the internet was just becoming popular. I watched an interview with Steve Jobs and he said: “If you’re not learning the internet, then you will be left behind.”

So I dug deep and started working with the best of the best, like Perry Marshall, learning Google ads, SEO, building brands online. This led me to starting my branding and PR firm in 2004, which has now grown to be one of the top-rated branding and PR firms for entrepreneurs by Forbes magazine.

Can you share the most interesting story that happened to you since you began leading your company?

In 2007 and 2008, after three years of building our company and doing very well, as we were preparing for our baby to come, my husband and I invested heavily in real estate. When my daughter was born, we found out we were about to lose everything. At that point we had to make a decision to continue on the path that we were going to try to keep the assets that we held, or to make a massive shift.

So in 2008 on November 25, we left with our daughter, and sold everything we had. We left with $12,872.62 to our name with a vision about never letting my daughter go into daycare. So, we started traveling the world. That downfall was our greatest catapult and asset that we ever had.

This November 25th will be 15 years that we’ve traveled the world, lived in over 52 different countries and built our company exclusively online to be the empire that it is today.

Can you share a story about the funniest mistake you made when you were first starting? Can you tell us what lesson you learned from that?

I was working, making sales calls and talking to people about how I can help them build their brand online and I had someone ask me if this was an MLM. And at that time, I had no idea what an MLM (Multi-level marketing) was. These companies were so big and I had no idea even what that was.

I was on this sales call and I was trying to answer the question, and then I realized and said that — I actually have no idea what that is. I learned what an MLM was from a sales call with a prospect.

Lesson that I learned was just be open and be able to reply to people with your transparency, especially if you don’t know what they’re talking about.

None of us are able to achieve success without some help along the way. Is there a particular person who you are grateful towards who helped get you to where you are? Can you share a story about that?

Perry Marshall in 2004. He’s considered the grandfather of online marketing. He actually wrote the algorithm or broke the algorithms for Google and really figured it out — how to run Google AdWords, how to really dominate on Google.

I started working with Perry, one of his master classes and his masterminds, started mentoring. Because of his copywriting skills and his knowledge on the online world I was able to become one of the first women to earn a million dollars online by using a sales funnel before a sales funnel actually became really cool.

Ok, thank you for that. Let’s now jump to the primary focus of our interview. According to this EY report, only about 20 percent of funded companies have women founders. This reflects great historical progress, but it also shows that more work still has to be done to empower women to create companies. In your opinion and experience what is currently holding back women from founding companies?

There’s $11 trillion that is purely procured for businesses every year, and only 1% of that is going to women. Now that still might be $110 billion dollars. Can you imagine — just by increasing that by 1%, that adds on another $110 billion into women owned businesses.

I think what keeps women from creating and founding companies is that they’re afraid that they actually can’t do it themselves or they get knocked down, or they’re not seen enough. They’re afraid that they just can’t achieve. So, women end up always hovering in someone else’s spotlight.

As an entrepreneur, it’s challenging. You do need funding and you need investors and people that will support you to get to the next level. And I think that’s what happens to most women — they don’t have the support, so they’re unable to really get to the levels that they really want.

I bootstrapped my company and self-funded it very slowly. But what that did for me, it allowed me to learn along the way.

It also depends on the personality of the woman who is really determined to make a difference. I feel that if you create a business around your love and passion, and the impact you want to leave, you won’t quit.

Can you help articulate a few things that can be done as individuals, as a society, or by the government, to help overcome those obstacles?

First off, it’s recognizing the distribution of funding and looking at alternative businesses that women are creating. Create more opportunities, but don’t make it special — like “you’re diverse or you’re a woman, so you can get special grants from us.”

It’s more like — you’re a woman, just like you’re a man — you’re a human, who is an entrepreneur, who wants to create a business.

Be more open to the equality of someone’s ideas, not the fact that they’re a male or woman.

I am for women’s rights, that’s what I stand for. However, I also don’t like to be compared.

I think inclusivity and equality is everything. If someone is willing to go the stronger road to become an entrepreneur, then they shouldn’t just be considered a woman or a man — they should be considered an entrepreneur and seen as that as well.

Also being given the same opportunities that men have, especially when it comes to funding — within government and within society.

I think our society tends to lean on gender equality. When you look at someone, whether they’re a person of color, or a different gender, or have different gender preferences, there’s an instant judgment. Society really needs to open their minds to not judging each other. Discrimination is what’s gotten us into a really bad place in this world.

This might be intuitive to you as a woman founder but I think it will be helpful to spell this out. Can you share a few reasons why more women should become founders?

Yes, because women lead from their heart. Women have empathy. They look at the impact that they can leave on the world with their work. And more women are stepping into that space — that intuitive space, that compassion space, they’re creating bigger and better products and better opportunities and companies that can help change the world. Women need to stand up for themselves in their power and know that their feelings and their intuition can create magic, and create an amazing business.

What are the “myths” that you would like to dispel about being a founder? Can you explain what you mean?

Myths of being a founder — is that you know everything. People think that when you’re the founder or visionary of a company, that you should know it all.

In reality, if you’re the smartest person in the room, you need to step out of the room. You need to have a great team and people around you who support you. This is what helps you really become one of the most powerful business owners.

Another myth is that you have to be hard or tough and do it all on your own. It isn’t true. You can’t get there on your own, you have to take a chance with someone else.

Is everyone cut out to be a founder? In your opinion, which specific traits increase the likelihood that a person will be a successful founder and what type of person should perhaps seek a “regular job” as an employee? Can you explain what you mean?

I don’t actually feel that every person can be a founder of a company.

In my opinion traits needed are: resilience, the “Go get them!” attitude, wearing blinders and not allowing things to distract you — this is what founders need — not listening to other people’s opinions.

You know, I think that alone is what makes a founder and someone who’s a visionary.

There are also people we need to have, that are workers. They can execute and bring ideas to light. If you have a lot of idea makers, as visionaries as founders, but you don’t have someone that can help execute that, you’re not going to have a successful company.

Our company was built to utilize the Human Design system. It shows you who you are. For example, I’m a manifesting generator. That means I’ve got a lot of ideas, I keep bringing ideas, and opportunities come my way. And then there’s those who are generators. These are the type of people who make things come to execution. So, you need different types of personalities inside when you’re developing a company, and not everyone can be the visionary. You need those different levels of people with those different types of personalities and skills to help execute and come to the end goal.

Ok super. Here is the main question of our interview. What are your “5 Things I Wish Someone Told Me Before I Started” and why? (Please share a story or example for each.)

Number one — Get used to failing every day. Because the more you fail, the faster you’ll get to where you want to be.

Number two — Sometimes it feels lonely as an entrepreneur, just know that there are billions of other people out there doing the same thing. So, find yourself a network to tap into for the days that you feel like you’re completely alone.

Number three — Not everyone is there to be your friend or to help. Be discerning on who you work with, who you employ, and who you bring into your valuable space that you’ve created. Because many people are only there for themselves. So, the most important thing is to do background checks, to give people contracts, and to make sure that you protect your value and your assets.

Number four — Do projects, not partnerships. One thing that I learned in growing my companies is that when you bring in people as partners, you also bring in their baggage, their problems, their issues, and also it can be very hard to separate when things go wrong as a partner. But when you’re a project partner or equity partner, there are certain contracts and guidelines that you follow, so that you’re able to split easily. Like it’s a lot easier to break up a relationship than when it is a marriage. So, I treat partnerships and project partnerships very differently.

Number five — Don’t talk about big projects until they’re launched — people’s opinions will deter your focus.

How have you used your success to make the world a better place?

My family gives away 8% of everything we earn. I also have created a “Women Gone Wild” book project where I give away all of our Amazon digital book sales to charity, so that we can make the world a better place. We’ve also created our own foundation called Heartstrings Foundation, where we teach music to children in the orphanage here on Bali and provide them with instruments so they can actually have a longer-term life with a skill that they may never have.

You are a person of great influence. If you could inspire a movement that would bring the most amount of good for the greatest number of people, what would that be? You never know what your idea can trigger.

I would create a movement that is called Women Gone Wild, which we have done that inspires women to tell their story, to collaborate, to come together, so that they can support each other and do business to work differently and to create long-standing friendships. This is not something that I was taught growing up, and something I think is so well needed.

We are very blessed that some very prominent names in Business, VC funding, Sports, and Entertainment read this column. Is there a person in the world, or in the US with whom you would love to have a private breakfast or lunch with, and why? He or she might just see this if we tag them.

I would like to have lunch with Warren Buffett — I use his quote so often in life and in business. And that was: “You find out who’s been swimming naked when the tide goes out”. This can be related to so many things in life — to whether people are invested properly, or if they are protecting their assets or if they are telling a story. That may not be fully true, or they are representing themselves in a way that also may or may not be true. I think that when we start to be very conscious and aware of who others really are and listen to our own intuition, we then start to see things as they truly are. And the biggest and the greatest lessons I have learned are from Warren Buffett on how to protect my long-term assets, how to protect my family, and how to give back or create wealth that allows you to give back and to be someone of pure authenticity so that when the tide goes out, you’re not the one standing naked.

Thank you for these fantastic insights. We greatly appreciate the time you spent on this.

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An Interview With Candice Georgiadis

The phrase I heard recently that has resonated the most is “Fortune Favors the Brave” — while I’m sure I’ve heard this quotation many times before, with the new knowledge and growth I’ve had, it really makes sense. We need to take brave, decisive action towards what we want in life. When you don’t know what’s coming next, it is an opportunity for real growth to happen. When we know what’s coming next, we are repeating the same patterns.

As a part of our series about women who are shaking things up in their industry, I had the pleasure of interviewing Tiffany Zehara.

Tiffany works with individuals and organizations globally to connect problems with solutions. Taking average concepts, failing projects with potential, and big thinkers to support the reshaping of ideas to implement and support revenue generating capacities, making the most of their impact in the world. Additionally, she assists firms, institutions, and governments to develop different perspectives and avenues for solutions when working with difficult clients or demographics; addressing internal challenges or mediating disputes.

Thank you so much for doing this with us! Before we dig in, our readers would like to get to know you a bit more. Can you tell us a bit about your “backstory”? What led you to this particular career path?

Thank you very much for having my voice a part of this important conversation! I have always been someone who questioned everything. I think my family believed it was endearing until my questions became increasingly challenging and they no longer had the simple answers to provide. This was one of my main motives behind my love of reading. I wanted to know and understand it all, and with that, came questioning why we “must” do certain things or “must” do things in a certain manner.

Can you tell our readers what it is about the work you’re doing that’s disruptive?

In routinely questioning, in seeing things as differently as I always have, I find new paths for individuals and organizations that may not have been thought about previously because of their being too emotionally close to the problem or too attached to the traditional way of doing things. We have routinely been engrained with one way of doing things. I encourage my clients to think in different ways, to question, to challenge the system in order to get the different results from what they have received by playing by others rules and to change the world on their own terms.

Can you share a story about the funniest mistake you made when you were first starting? Can you tell us what lesson you learned from that?

In being someone who has prided herself in always questioning and challenging, what is funny is that when I first started, I was listening to everyone else because I doubted my own capabilities! That self-doubt only led me to more frustration and self-doubt. I had to learn the importance of trusting myself; trusting my capabilities; trusting that I will always have what I need — be that knowledge in a particular area or the resources to find the answer. I also learned the importance of turning inward and not relying on external circumstances and external praise for validation of my worthiness.

We all need a little help along the journey. Who have been some of your mentors? Can you share a story about how they made an impact?

I have had amazing coaches along the way who have shown me how everything in our lives are connected. Our past traumas and self-worth impact who we attract as clients and business partnerships; how we deal with situations when we are not being paid for our services; issues around money and success as a whole.

In today’s parlance, being disruptive is usually a positive adjective. But is disrupting always good? When do we say the converse, that a system or structure has ‘withstood the test of time’? Can you articulate to our readers when disrupting an industry is positive, and when disrupting an industry is ‘not so positive’? Can you share some examples of what you mean?

I would say to always question. Never just accept what is being told to you, no matter who is telling you something. Always challenge, no matter if it’s a system or structure that has withstood the test of time. Sometimes these structures or systems have lasted because no one questioned them, for a variety of reasons. It doesn’t mean that it is correct.

The key is to gather as much information as you can in the particular area and sit with it to see how you feel and act accordingly. Trust yourself. We all make the best decisions that are right for us in the time. In hindsight, we may have acted differently but that is because we are looking at a situation through the lens of new knowledge. When you get new knowledge, your thoughts or viewpoints may change, and that’s okay but never stop challenging.

Can you share 3 of the best words of advice you’ve gotten along your journey? Please give a story or example for each.

The phrase I heard recently that has resonated the most is “Fortune Favors the Brave” — while I’m sure I’ve heard this quotation many times before, with the new knowledge and growth I’ve had, it really makes sense. We need to take brave, decisive action towards what we want in life. When you don’t know what’s coming next, it is an opportunity for real growth to happen. When we know what’s coming next, we are repeating the same patterns.

While I think this phrase is technically four words, I think it still applies.

We are sure you aren’t done. How are you going to shake things up next?

While I will continue to speak with other amazing disruptors on my podcast and privately consult, I am very excited about a recent opportunity to be a part of writing a book on further disrupting the system.

In your opinion, what are the biggest challenges faced by ‘women disruptors’ that aren’t typically faced by their male counterparts?

Everyone faces challenges, in one way or another, no matter where you fall on the gendered spectrum. My grandmother always said, “you never know what happens behind closed doors.” While someone may seem to have it all together, you never know what’s going on below the surface. We are in this life to learn the lessons we are meant to learn. If everything is easy all the time, where is the growth?

Do you have a book/podcast/talk that’s had a deep impact on your thinking? Can you share a story with us?

I’ve always seemed to find the information I needed, when I needed to hear it. When I may go back to a particular book, talk, podcast, etc. it’s interesting to see how that information doesn’t seem as insightful as it once was because of the growth I may have underwent. This goes back to trusting yourself. If you are looking for guidance or answers, ask for it, be open to how the answers will come, and a response will come in surprising ways — from seeing a billboard to just getting hit with a thought while in the shower or washing the dishes.

You are a person of great influence. If you could inspire a movement that would bring the most amount of good to the most amount of people, what would that be? You never know what your idea can trigger. 🙂

I believe that’s what I’m doing right now 🙂

Can you please give us your favorite “Life Lesson Quote”? Can you share how that was relevant to you in your life?

My life motto has always been that everything happens for a reason. Everything, no matter how horrible it may seem at the time, is working for our best and highest good. We may never know why in this life that somethings happen, but there is always a larger purpose. Even if it is just to teach us patience, humility, or forgiveness.

How can our readers follow you online?

https://humanitarian-entrepreneur.com

https://humanitarian-entrepreneur.com/podcasts/ (and on all major streaming platforms)

This was very inspiring. Thank you so much for joining us!

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Women In Wellness: Dominnique Karetsos of Healthy Pleasure Group On The Five Lifestyle Tweaks That Will Help Support People’s Journey Towards Better Wellbeing

An Interview With Candice Georgiadis

Leadership is a lifelong commitment to learning and listening to others. But, just as important is your loyal daily commitment to your own integrity and staying true to yourself

As a part of my series about women in wellness, I had the pleasure of interviewing Dominnique Karetsos.

A born entrepreneur and resilient optimist, Dominnique Karetsos is CEO and Founder of The Healthy Pleasure Group, the only global outfit dedicated to the Sexual Health & Technology industry.

Thank you so much for joining us in this interview series! Our readers would love to “get to know you” better. Can you share your “backstory” with us?

My name is Dominnique Karetsos, I’m the CEO and co-founder of Healthy Pleasure Group, a pioneering collective that seeks to define, reshape and revolutionise the sexual empowerment of all generations and pave the way for healthy sexuality and healthy pleasure for everyone.

Having spent my youth in both Greece and South Africa, I studied in Sweden and I’m now based in London, with the Group also holding offices in Barcelona and Los Angeles. I’ve worked in more than 40 markets globally, helping start-ups and market leaders across beauty, retail and health improve and increase their sales, marketing and distribution channels.

As women, when we have questions about our autonomy or our sexual health, we look for permission to even ask them. For instance, on the Greek side of my family the generation before me would never discuss money and business at the table and on my mother’s side, children were to be seen but not heard. So, you didn’t have a voice, a choice or an opinion. It’s interesting to understand the taboos our parents’ generation fought to dismantle so that we can create our own fibres, weave our own way. I myself have been through a crippling divorce, which left me bankrupt when I was forced to take the crippling economic blowback for my ex-husband’s decisions. I was left with nothing, not even a roof over my head. Today we have the Domestic Abuse Bill which covers economic abuse that was brought into the UK parliament in 2017 to support women, but back then I made my way through this enormous situation myself. That is why I am very proud to have recently been asked to be a member of the UK charity Surviving Economic Abuse, sitting on the Experts by Experience Group. I am determined to ensure that no other women need go through what I did and that everyone is made aware of the support that is out there for them.

Can you share the most interesting story that happened to you since you started your career? What were the main lessons or takeaways from that story?

I can give you one example of the state of the Sexual Health & Technology industry when I first joined it around eight years ago. I was working with an intimate health brand and we were trying to get a mainstream pharma category buyer to list a menstrual cup. To gain access to point of sales we had to get through the buyers, most of whom were men in their early 20’s. In order to make sure that the phone wasn’t just immediately slammed down on us, we bought the advertising space in front of a lead buyer’s parking spot for three months. When we eventually got him to answer our call, he said, ‘Where have I seen this brand before?’ those few seconds were critical in allowing us to start the conversation of how putting menstrual cups on the feminine hygiene shelves was going to make a positive impact to his bottom line, but most importantly change the lives of women. Perseverance and creative persuasion is often what we need to to thrive and get through to the naysayers.

Because, how does one communicate the need for a product that has no relevance to these young men? It’s not easy to explain to mostly male buyers that there is a difference between a tampon and a menstrual cup. Or that you pee in your pants after you’ve had a kid. Women have been categorically ignored and marginalised when it comes to our health needs. We had the products, but we needed a buyer who would listen to us.

It has been said that our mistakes can be our greatest teachers. Can you share a story about a mistake you made when you were first starting? Can you tell us what lesson you learned from that?

I had so many meetings where I was not supposed to say the word sex! The amount of Boardrooms and now parents’ Whatsapp groups I have previously been kicked out of, is insane! On one occasion I distinctly remember telling my bosses at a leading beauty company to invest in male grooming as the future of the beauty category and they dismissed me out of the boardroom. Now that male grooming is mainstream industry worth billions, it gives me more confidence to stand by my beliefs and hold fast on my convictions. This space moves quickly, but my experience gives me that competitive edge for future trends. Looking back on this now, thankfully we’ve come a long way.

As the CEO I am today, I understand that my role comes with leadership, accountability, mentorship and ownership of our mistakes & successes. It’s important to make decisions that are in the best interest for the company, our people and our partners. I see my biggest responsibility as committing to continuous learning and sharing my knowledge with those same people.

Let’s jump to our main focus. When it comes to health and wellness, how is the work you are doing helping to make a bigger impact in the world?

The work we do is intrinsically geared towards creating opportunities, products and education to support underserved communities and ultimately democratise sexual health globally. From supporting one client focus on improving access to STI testing for women in LATAM, to building a competitive advantage for a fertility tracking brand to position its new technology to educate girls and young women about their first menstrual cycle.

We want to enable the facilitation of innovative pleasure, insightful pleasure, investigated pleasure and ultimately, healthy pleasure — for everyone. Fortunately, I’m seeing a lot of changes and a collective effort, but we need to continue to normalise language around sexual health, a new way of dismantling taboos and stigmas. As these things are gaining momentum, policy makers will need to react, too.

From democratising sexual pleasure beyond binary understandings to removing stigma and barriers to reproductive healthcare, we refuse to accept the way things have always been. Ultimately, we built Healthy Pleasure Group to create behavioural change through three vital economic motors; Education, Innovation and Investment.

If you could start a movement that would bring the most amount of wellness to the most amount of people, what would that be?

Healthy Pleasure is a movement. We define Healthy Pleasure as sexual self fulfillment, a state of wellbeing generated by perceiving yourself as sexually healthy. It’s about having coherence between what you want, think and do in every aspect of your sexual life. Encompassing three core values of respect, intimacy and care, Healthy Pleasure is not related to sexual frequency or sexual activity. Even if a person doesn’t have sex, as long as they are happy with that decision, they are sexually self-fulfilled.

For me, it is all about agency. Agency over our bodies, our finances and our equalities within the societal and political constructs that we inhabit. I sat as a delegate for UN Women UK last year at the Commission on the Status of Women, which was an eye-opening, global view on what we all face across every fabric of our lives. For me, the understanding and mis-understanding of a woman’s autonomy starts with the moment you tick that box on a form to declare if you are a Mr, Miss, Mrs or Ms. It may sound small, but that one declaration can have a massive impact on the way our needs are prioritised, especially for women. As soon as we tick that box, a lot of assumptions are made and a lot of regulations automatically apply in your life that affect you. Access to childcare, pay disparities, our health and more. I hope that will change one day. But in the meantime, women, just like men, should have a choice whether or not to declare this imposed societal status. They should be informed about what it means.

So now I’m just Dominnique Karetsos. I don’t tick the box. If I have an app and it forces me to do it, I just don’t sign up.

What are your “5 Things I Wish Someone Told Me Before I Started” and why?

1. Time is not money. Time is time and we should learn to live recognising that it is an non-replenishable resource. You decide how much of it you want to dedicate to the things that bring you joy.
2. Energy is not woo woo. Where energy goes, money will come
3. No is a full sentence
4. When I have the confidence to ask for what I want in the bedroom I will have the confidence to communicate what I want and need in the boardroom
5. Leadership is a lifelong commitment to learning and listening to others. But, just as important is your loyal daily commitment to your own integrity and staying true to yourself

Sustainability, veganism, mental health, and environmental changes are big topics at the moment. Which one of these causes is dearest to you, and why?

Healthy Pleasure as a cause and a movement, of course. Our sexual wellbeing is the most innate human experience and it dictates how we relate to everybody and everything in our lives. With our children, our partners, our colleagues. How we move through the world. Healthy Pleasure provides a new lens on how we view ourselves and this can be a lens of confidence, empathy, kindness but it can also be insecurity, depression or trauma. Healthy Pleasure is a movement that everyone must sit up and take notice of.

What is the best way for our readers to further follow your work online?

You can follow me directly on LinkedIn, read more about Healthy Pleasure Group on our website www.wearehpg.com and sign up to our monthly newsletter that brings you the latest news and updates from across Sexual Health & Technology industry here.

Thank you for these fantastic insights! We wish you continued success and good health.

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Women In Wellness: Dominnique Karetsos of Healthy Pleasure Group On The Five Lifestyle Tweaks That… was originally published in Authority Magazine on Medium, where people are continuing the conversation by highlighting and responding to this story.

Women Of The C-Suite: Melissa Hughes of The Live Rich. Spread Wealth. Global Movement On The Five Things You Need To Succeed As A Senior Executive

An Interview With Candice Georgiadis

You don’t need permission. You have this seed that was planted in your soul, an idea that was planted in your head. If other people don’t agree, that’s on them. Don’t let other people hold you hostage to this idea that was given to you. So when I followed my heart, I was committed to bringing those ideas to life. It worked out. But if I had waited for everybody’s permission, and to get all that acceptance, to make it happen. I would never be here even being interviewed today. So trust the small voice.

As a part of our interview series called “Women Of The C-Suite”, we had the pleasure of interviewing Melissa Hughes.

A self-made millionaire by 31, Melissa Hughes is the founder of the Live Rich. Spread Wealth. Global Movement, which is changing the lives of businesspeople worldwide. She is a master business coach, best-selling author, international speaker, and consultant. Her mission: to help entrepreneurs and individuals in corporate America accomplish their business goals, (including massive profits), while staying connected to their authentic self, transforming the world, and creating lives of limitless abundance.

Known as The Guru of Implementation®, Melissa’s success, and that of her clients, is a result of her practical, proven systems for business and life success. Her clients include companies like Microsoft, Motorola, ESPN, and globally recognized speaker Lisa Nichols, star of the hit film, The Secret, as well as small start-ups and individuals. Large corporations around the world hire Melissa to advise them on projects and initiatives to the tune of $20 million, and she specializes in helping to ensure culture, communication, project scope, and implementation are successful across divisions, departments, and business units.

Melissa is a dynamic, transformative speaker who has presented to companies and at entrepreneurial events, conferences, universities, and associations throughout the U.S. and in Ukraine, Dubai, Costa Rica, Canada, Bali, Tokyo, and Amsterdam, to name a few.

Thanks to her high-accountability and firm-love coaching style, Melissa’s coaching clients (who number in the thousands) have created massive results in their business and personal lives.

Melissa, a wife and the mom of a six-year-old global citizen (who has already been to 14 countries), serves as a board member on the Detroit Chapter of the Entrepreneur Organization. She has worked with leaders, trailblazers, sleeping giants, and entrepreneurs worldwide, helping them live their divine purpose and a full life.

https://melissahughes.com/

Thank you so much for joining us in this interview series! Before we dig in, our readers would like to get to know you a bit more. Can you tell us a bit about your “backstory”? What led you to this particular career path?

When I was in this fortune 500 company, and I wanted to be a manager, people were telling me well, they don’t really hire minorities as managers. So I took it on as my responsibility to focus on my cover sheet and made sure that my resume truly reflected what I’ve been able to accomplish. And then I was at peace with it. Because then I did my part to tee up. These are my qualifications for the job. I didn’t wait for them to assume it, I took responsibility for that. And I teed it up there. As a result, I got the job.

I was going to my first meeting in the C suite. It had its own elevator, glass doors & windows everywhere. I was trying to find the office where the meeting was being held, and the Secretary ran up to me, and was like, Excuse me, can I help you? Like, she thought that I wasn’t supposed to be there!

I sit down at the table, and all the execs are talking .When I spoke, nobody heard me. Someone else would say the exact same thing that I just said. And they’re like, Yeah, that’s great. But the good news is, by the fifth meeting, they didn’t start the meeting without me. They wanted to know what I had to say so I never gave up. I did not let the traditional sense of environment, the traditional sense of being, interrupt my desire to make a difference. So I never leaned into my ego, I leaned into how I can be a part of the solution. Put that as a priority: how can I be a part of the solution as people eventually will bend an arrow your way as then you’re known to be that person.

So as a result of being in corporate, getting the promotions and Microsoft recruited me. I was like, Okay, I’m like, at the acme of a career, I’m making great money. I was like, Well, wait a minute, is this real or is this virtual reality? Can I do this on my own? Can I create my own wealth? And that’s what I decided to branch out and be a business owner, because I wanted to exercise what that would look like.

When you’re in a corporation, you’re in one swim lane, but when you have your own business, you wear all those hats. That opportunity to be my own boss really stretched me. I was working harder than I ever worked before, but I was fulfilled more than I ever was because all of my work was a direct correlation to the success or the demise of the business. I own that and I felt really good about that. I did grow my business eventually to become a millionaire by 31.

Mindset is so important when you’re looking to navigate life and want to be that Trailblazer. My mindset at the time was that success meant being alone. I was very isolated, I was only working on my business. As far as freedom was concerned, it didn’t feel like freedom.

I went back to work, I went back to corporate. I didn’t even know if I could be hireable after you do your own thing. Who wants to listen to somebody else? I wanted to test that too. Could I actually be humble? How can I still be functional, productive, if I didn’t own the business but what I found was it made me even better, because then I understood what it was from an owner perspective. And when it was from an employee perspective, I was met with more value.

Without having that experience, you really don’t know what it’s like to be the owner, or the person that’s responsible for the profit & loss and things of that nature. So after a while, I was like, Okay, I wanted to be more in the family. I wanted to have my own things. I wanted to have more control over my time, and what I wanted to do in life. And so when I did that, I said, well what is the career that will allow me to still show up in all my skills, and all my contribution, that will actually bend towards the lifestyle that I want to create. So now I was able to use my corporate grooming and apply it to my legacy, my future, my business. That was the journey to be CEO. And I’ve been a CEO for 20 years.

Can you share the most interesting story that happened to you since you began leading your company?

When I started my company, I had an intention of wanting to make an impact in the world. I kind of imagined I had this mansion. And then I would welcome people with lots of acres lit up, like symbolically what that was, you know, I have something really great to contribute. It was not only about my clients, but it was also being able to impact the next generation.

I had a client that called me and said, I quit my job, I want you to help me to build my business as I want to now go out on my own.She was in a good position in the hospitality industry, has a family, they all go to private school, but she made a powerful choice to quit and go out on her own. She was coaching with me and this was pre COVID (October 2019), and by the time March came around, she was so glad she left her job because her industry totally tanked during the pandemic.

She got to spend more quality time with her son. I had been coaching her for years, and he had been listening at her feet. During COVID, he started his business, a tutoring business that became really successful.So for me, that was an interesting story because it really showed how when parents stand to take a stand for themselves, and invest in their future that it undisputedly impacts their legacy. And the fact that she attributes our experience, her/my coaching relationship, she was positioned very well, even for the time that the world was falling apart.

Can you share a story about the funniest mistake you made when you were first starting? Can you tell us what lesson you learned from that?

When I started my first business, a spa, I knew that I had to get attention for my business. I paid for marketing spots on the radio. I was so excited. I was like, oh my gosh, we’re gonna be on the radio and In my mind I thought that advertising it would be like celebrating the business.

Well, the talk show host started talking about green masks on your face, and how bizarre it is to get facials, and how it crackles on your face, the drama of how this green stuff goes on your face, They were cracking jokes, it was so ridiculous. I was shocked. I was like, oh my gosh this isn’t good, it’s supposed to promote me. I was totally appalled.

I didn’t understand the importance of visibility and how I’m thinking one thing, and it was something totally different. They made such a big deal about it on the radio, that people had to drop by and see what it was all about.

None of us are able to achieve success without some help along the way. Is there a particular person who you are grateful towards who helped get you to where you are? Can you share a story about that?

The first one is my grandparents. My grandfather was the first entrepreneur that I’ve ever met in my life. Just knowing it was possible, by his IQ, by way of his example, was definitely very pivotable. Because, as an African American woman, we don’t always see it. This was pre Oprah, we didn’t see it on TV.

I can look into my family and see examples of people that look like me to say, Oh, wow, this could very well be possible. That was one thing. The other thing as far as my best friend, Kim, she’s someone that always spoke life into me. She knew what kind of background I had, she knew some of the struggles that I had as a person and how my dreams are not always recognized, heard or understood. I had a way of kind of going against what the normal thought processes were. She always celebrated and said, Hey, go for it. She always had a kind word choice which spoke life into me, as a really great friend. She’s someone that actually knows me and spoke life into me as opposed to people that actually know you, but they don’t speak life into you. I’m very thankful that I had an earth angel in my life, to continue to listen to my dreams and my aspirations, and to continue to speak life into those things.

As you know, the United States is facing a very important self-reckoning about race, diversity, equality and inclusion. This may be obvious to you, but it will be helpful to spell this out. Can you articulate to our readers a few reasons why it is so important for a business or organization to have a diverse executive team?

This is for the companies that want to be extremely profitable, and global. It’s important for you to understand who your customers are and to not have a blind eye to the other people that are buying your goods and services. The importance of inclusion and diversity in a CEO suite, is because your customers have different conversations. They have different ways of looking and experiencing your products and your services. The more intel you have around that is, the more you’re able to to be successful and profitable with more grace and ease.

When you understand what is acceptable in certain cultures, and what’s not accepted in certain cultures. For example, why you wouldn’t have monkeys in your commercials. If you had an African American on the executive team, you would recognize that monkeys were symbolic, as in African American culture, people used to be called apes.

Like having an executive team that is diverse, allows you to have when you come with a solution, it’s more solid, because it’s been looked at from different angles. You might not always agree in the boardroom., but when it’s produced, and it’s now launched into the world, those things are better positioned to be very successful from a global perspective. So you get everybody’s green, as opposed to only one type of people’s green.

As a business leader, can you please share a few steps we must take to truly create an inclusive, representative, and equitable society? Kindly share a story or example for each.

I had to work in different countries, like Canada, the Bahamas, Ukraine, etc and and different cultures have been exposed to different business settings. I believe that in order to create more of an inclusive environment, you have to be open to adopt a diverse perspective. When you’re at the table with everyone, make sure that everybody has a voice. Why invite them to the table and not give them a voice?

The outgoing ones that will freely give you their information. Obviously, they’re going to be heard, but the ones that are not as outgoing, that are more demure, introverts create a safe environment so you hear what they have to say as well. Oftentimes, they have the key to what can really blow this all the way out the water. So if you’re going to invite people to the table, hear what they have to say, and create an inclusive environment, so that people can feel heard, and not judge, and that their information can be received, and they feel like you’ve heard that.If we listen more to people, and then we create solutions from there, we’ll be better off.

Ok, thank you for that. Let’s now jump to the primary focus of our interview. Most of our readers — in fact, most people — think they have a pretty good idea of what a CEO or executive does. But in just a few words can you explain what an executive does that is different from the responsibilities of the other leaders?

Okay, yes, executives have full accountability on the rise or fall of whatever goes on in the organization.

Other leaders might be responsible for their section, but even if their section falls, it’s still going to be on the CEO. The CEO has full responsibility for the rise and fall of what’s going on in the organization.

The CEO, while having a team oftentimes, still has the final decision. Truth to be told, there’s a lot of weight in having that final decision. It’s important as a CEO to have the skill sets, being able to deal in the ambiguity of conversations. Sometimes the solutions are not there but because you have enough input, you have to make some kinds of tough decisions. It’s easy to make decisions, everything’s right. It’s hard to make decisions when things are falling apart. The CEO will still have that responsibility, regardless of whether it’s great or bad.

That is a distinction. Also, the CEO can’t get another job.

What are the “myths” that you would like to dispel about being a CEO or executive. Can you explain what you mean?

The myth is that that there must be superhuman powers that we have. We don’t. We’re not smarter. We’re not superhuman. We’re humans, like everybody else. We made serious decisions, or we’ve been given a certain path that allowed us to be positioned to where we are. However, CEOs are human beings as well. So there is no perfection, even when there’s large responsibilities.

As a CEO, you’re only as good as your weakest link so that’s why it’s so important that as a CEO, you are open to getting the appropriate expertise and counsel to support you and making great decisions to the best of your ability.

The other thing is, CEO’s have good days and bad days as human beings. They have family matters, health, just like everybody else. So they’re not any different than you. They’ve just made different sort of decisions, sacrifices, and have been positioned differently to be where they are. But it doesn’t make them better or worse there at the end of the day, just the same as everybody else.

In your opinion, what are the biggest challenges faced by women executives that aren’t typically faced by their male counterparts?

Earnings. Oftentimes, women don’t make as much as men and then that’s a double edged sword because sometimes we’re not groomed to ask for more, either. We’re just happy to get on the roll. We’re trailblazing those roles oftentimes.

Men will really ask for that, they are responsible for their families. But now, even when women are responsible for their families, they still don’t get as much pay as the male counterpart would. The way women work is different. We do tend to be more collaborative, as opposed to dictatorships. And that oftentimes can be seen as weaknesses, it oftentimes can be seen as us asking permission to go left or right. When no, it’s actually just a different management style. So that you have more of a complete conclusion. The Difference also is that all women aren’t interested in sports. Men talk about different topics around the table, in between meetings. And it’s not always what a woman feels like talking about. That can kind of create a lack of bonding that way too. Communication styles are also different. Sometimes we get asked to do things that they would never ask a man to do.

It’s a way of life that corporate America has not expanded to yet. To understand that this is, this is how it is. It’s not a woman or a man thing. It’s about protecting the threat of family. Because those are gonna be the next executives. And if they didn’t have their parents around, guess what you’re creating. So it’s good business, to have good family benefits and family environments.

What is the most striking difference between your actual job and how you thought the job would be?

I’m an entrepreneur, so I got to create my job. I would say the second time around, I created exactly like I wanted it to be. I had more inputs. I thought being entrepreneur and owning a business would require you to work around the clock. I found that if you put certain systems, build some blocks, have an intention that you could actually create a life where you don’t have to do that.

As opposed to corporate America, when you’re working for someone, you might not have any choice. If you don’t work around the clock, you can’t keep up. Usually when you work for someone, you think, oh, I need to work more hours to get the work done.

When you have your own business, you can create structures in your business so that you actually can have a life as you monetize. With the right intention, and a belief system that you can work less and earn more, that is totally possible. It doesn’t mean you’re not working. Your work is still quality. It doesn’t mean that you lower how you take care of your customers. It’s a way to not work as much as you were working as an executive in corporate America.

Is everyone cut out to be an executive? In your opinion, which specific traits increase the likelihood that a person will be a successful executive and what type of person should avoid aspiring to be an executive? Can you explain what you mean?

Not everybody’s not cut out to be an executive at all. One of the things that make a very successful executive is emotional intelligence. Business has ebbs and flows, business deals with people, people make up a business. Even if it’s mostly high tech, you still have people involved. Everybody’s not motivated the same way. So you need to be able to tap into your, company. And you need to be able to meet people where they are to move the needle, whether it’s high times or low times. And if you don’t have emotional intelligence, you can be a bull in a china shop. You can lose your best people and not even understand why that happened. If you are emotionally intelligent, you will understand and figure out well, what are the elite levers? No, it might not be that you’re paying the most, but you have created the best culture. It might not be that you know the most but you know what they would rather work for you than anyone else. Because they know that you’re taking a stand for them.

So leadership is knowing how to lead people to do the things that’s necessary to get the job done. Not the micromanager. If you have high performers, they don’t want micromanagers. If you’re up to big things, you want high performers, and you want to know how to lead high performers. If you have high performers and you’re micromanaging every step of the way, It’s one thing to invest in and onboard them. Because even high performers need support. They need communication, they need to know how to work in this new environment. But once they get it, let them run with it and hold them accountable to the results and standards you have set. You have to make sure your business is working well.

What are your “5 Things I Wish Someone Told Me Before I Started” and why? (Please share a story or example for each.)

1. You’re the last person to get paid.

One of the stories that I have in reference to that is one of my first businesses, the spa, it was the day before making payroll. And the bank did not have enough to cover everyone’s payroll. it was actually the first time this ever happened to me, I was like suicidal. Because I would rather die, literally, than to face people that already worked. And to tell them I didn’t have their paycheck.

When I walked towards my spa, the next day there was a man waiting to pay for a membership for his wife and in that moment, that covered not only the payroll, it also covered supplies.

I wish someone would have told me that coming in because it wouldn’t have been such a devastating experience.

2. There’s always a way.

Like, there’s no giving up, there’s always a way. So when you’re down and out, because you never had a business before and you’re kind of perplexed. Know there is always a way. So for example, when you’re like, okay, oh my gosh, I have this business, I’ve created all this, and I have this product and this service, but no one is buying anything. Even if you’re not comfortable doing so, you need to find a way to invest in that or get the support you need. Because there’s always a way. You limit yourself, when you think that it’s either you have it or there’s not going to be had.

3. You don’t need permission.

You have this seed that was planted in your soul, an idea that was planted in your head. If other people don’t agree, that’s on them. Don’t let other people hold you hostage to this idea that was given to you. So when I followed my heart, I was committed to bringing those ideas to life. It worked out. But if I had waited for everybody’s permission, and to get all that acceptance, to make it happen. I would never be here even being interviewed today. So trust the small voice.

4. You can take a stand for your family.

It doesn’t need to be either or. You either have a successful business or a family. You can value both. You don’t need to compromise your soul to be successful. Having a daughter and a husband are full time jobs as well. How do you co exist? While I’m not saying it’s easy, it’s possible to have both. Because what is a successful business if you have nobody to share it with?

I work in the beauty tech industry, so I am very interested to hear your philosophy or perspective about beauty. In your role as a powerful woman and leader, how much of an emphasis do you place on your appearance? Do you see beauty as something that is superficial, or is it something that has inherent value for a leader in a public context? Can you explain what you mean?

So first of all, Appearance is important, but appearance has to be true to you.

So in the sense of what it looks like to be beautiful, you get to define that. Because what I feel like society needs is they need the diverse spectrum of what beauty looks like. And so as a result, yes, you want to show a consistent brand.Then maybe you’re inconsistent. And people like that too, because they’re always guessing, like what is she going to wear next. The definition of beauty is an inside out job. You want to hold to that. And so the most important thing is to stay consistent with who you are. So when people are purchasing things from you and wanting your services and your goods, you do have a responsibility to show up for them so you want to be your best, and you don’t want to act like you’re just rolling out of bed all the time unless that’s part of your product and your brand. You know, some guys want to only wear black. But It seems like the same black shirt isn’t fine. That can be their definition of beauty. So in essence beauty is an inside out job because we’re still gonna get older, you know, surgery, Botox can only go so far. So what is that thing about you that can transcend appearances. And if you don’t have that you’ll get lost in the shuffle, you will get lost in the trends, you get lost in wanting to be accepted. I want to look how you did 10 years ago when you’re not 10 years ago. And then that’s not fun. And then that’s not desirable. And that will make you less valuable in the marketplace.

You are a person of great influence. If you could inspire a movement that would bring the most amount of good for the greatest number of people, what would that be? You never know what your idea can trigger.

Okay, over 15 years ago, I asked myself the same thing. And I always want to take a stand for empowerment and abundance. And those are the words that were driving me. And so that was the foundation of where my movement came from. That’s where rich red wealth was born. Live Rich is all about embracing all of who you are, self acceptance of love, the quirky your education, your experiences, and supporting humanity with those things in a positive way. And then making room for the abundance that provides you. So as a result of being a founder of a movement, what I found that has happened is it does uplift people, even whether it’s a conversation, whether it’s an experience at an event, whether it’s a program, whether it’s a free offering, having a message that is solely created to inspire and educate and support the uplifting of humanity is a legacy that I choose to continue on the path with. It actually feels good. Actually, everybody wins. And it’s not always tied to money. However, you can have an abundant life as a result, including money. But I would say that a movement is for the people. A movement is not solely for the founder of the movement, the founder of the movement, gives birth to it, but at the end of the day to the people, if it resonates with people is great. And if it doesn’t, then it’s not. So you want to make sure that you are able to serve people in your movement. And that’s what makes us a successful movement versus not one that’s successful.

We are very blessed that some very prominent names in Business, VC funding, Sports, and Entertainment read this column. Is there a person in the world, or in the US with whom you would love to have a private breakfast or lunch with, and why? He or she might just see this if we tag them

So definitely Oprah. And I’ll tell you why. Because I feel like she is a powerful soul having a human experience. And she is dedicated and committed to making a huge impact while she’s here. And I love that, because I know it’s possible as a result of seeing all the things that she’d been able to accomplish. And I know that her life has been on the world stage, the ups and downs. And as a result of her transparency, and our authenticity, it allowed me to be human, with my desires and my goals. And to know that it doesn’t have to be perfect. But it has to be but you have to be true to what you feel like your assignment is. And I feel like she’s on her soul assignment.

Thank you for these fantastic insights. We greatly appreciate the time you spent on this.

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Thriving As A Woman In a Male-Dominated Industry: Patricia Baronowski-Schneider of Pristine Advisers On The Five Things You Need To Thrive and Succeed as a Woman In a Male-Dominated Industry

An Interview With Candice Georgiadis

Believe in yourself — In order to succeed in a man’s world, you have to believe in your own abilities. You can’t let self-doubt creep in and undermine your confidence. Remember that you have just as much to offer as any man in your field, and don’t sell yourself short.

In the United States in 2022, fields such as Aircraft piloting, Agriculture, Architecture, Construction, Finance, and Information technology, are still male-dominated industries. For a woman who is working in a male-dominated environment, what exactly does it take to thrive and succeed? In this interview series, we are talking to successful women who work in a Male-Dominated Industry who can share their stories and experiences about navigating work and life as strong women in a male-dominated industry. As a part of this series, we had the distinct pleasure of interviewing Patricia Baronowski-Schneider.

Patricia Baronowski-Schneider is CEO of Pristine Advisers — She is an Investor Relations/Public Relations/ Media Relations and Marketing Expert | Driving Brand Awareness Through Integrated Marketing | 2 x’s Bestselling Author | 30+ years’ experience working with all types of niches around the world | https://www.pristineadvisers.com

Thank you so much for doing this with us! Before we dig in, our readers would like to get to know you a bit more. Can you tell us a bit about your childhood “backstory”?

I am the middle child of 3 girls (I guess that is part of how I was never exposed to being bullied around by boys until I joined the male dominated industry). I was raised in Manhattan by my parents until I was about 12 years old, then I was raised by my mom as a single parent. My mom taught me how to work hard and reach for success, no matter what. I have been working since I was 12 years old, taking on jobs such as a cashier at a local supermarket, to babysitting neighborhood children. I’ve always worked hard for everything that I wanted in life. And being the perfectionist that I am, I graduated high school as Valedictorian, then went on to being a single mom of two small children while putting myself through college, where I graduated with my Masters Degree in Business Management/Marketing with a 4.0 gpa.

Can you tell us the story about what led you to this particular career path?

To be honest, it wasn’t as if I became a Marketing Guru as a planned path. I was a Secretary of an IR/PR/Marketing/Media Relations agency right out of high school. It was just a job to me. I actually grew to love it just by being in the middle of watching everyone around me running all around doing their jobs. It seemed that no one even knew what their day had in store for them until we opened up our emails in the morning.

This agency was a predominantly woman-run office, and these woman truly inspired me. I instantly fell in love with the work and seeing their passion and dedication in the work made me decide to grow my way up the corporate ladder and make this my chosen profession.

You are a successful business leader. Which three character traits do you think were most instrumental to your success? Can you please share a story or example for each?

I would have to say my 3 characteristics are:

1. Never settle. It’s easy to just go with the flow, and take whatever life gives you. Anyone can do that — but if you want more in life — never settle. Go after it. I could have been a single mom back in the day, living off of the system. But that’s not me. I never settle. It wasn’t easy, but I worked my butt off, raising two children alone while putting myself through college and working my way up the corporate ladder. Settling is never an option for me.
2. Strive for perfection. Do you want to be “average”? Of course not. Be the best “you” that “you” can be. That’s my motto. I always strive for perfection — in every aspect of my life. I started as a secretary then worked my way up the corporate ladder until I grew and grew and eventually opened my own business. I took a tandem skydive once and then learned and trained and learned more and went on to become a licensed skydiving instructor to teach others how to skydive safely. I always reach for the top in everything that I do.
3. Question everything. I’m just a curious person, and always want to learn and understand everything. That’s how we learn. If something is done one way, I want to know why. What was the thinking behind why it is done that way? Maybe I have a different thought. Maybe that is a better way or maybe not, but then I learned why.

Ok, thank you for that. Let’s now jump to the primary focus of our interview. Can you help articulate a few of the biggest obstacles or challenges you’ve had to overcome while working in a male-dominated industry?

Yes indeed. As mentioned, I grew up with sisters, so I was never exposed to being bullied by boys, and being around girls all the time just teaches you to be nice and gentle and compassionate. One would think that that would be a nice trait, but in a male dominated industry, that has not helped me at all.

For example, countless time people in the industry, knowing that I know what I am doing and excel in it, they would ask me to put together a marketing plan to discuss my possibly working for them. I would spend hours doing the research and putting together a great marketing plan, only for them to tell me, “ok — thank you. Bye”. They basically stole my plan, never paid me/hired me, and took my work and left. The ironic part about that is that if they knew how to do the work, I would have seen their names all over the place. Clearly, they don’t know how to do it. Reading about it and having the skill-set and experience to actually do it are two different things. I also used to run a conference where I did not make any money on it. That was never my intention. I ran the conference as a means of providing a venue for the presenters. It consumed 6 months of my time and energy putting the event together and I was very specific about only inviting analysts, brokers, investors and media to the event. If the entire event cost $50k (with a networking sit-down lunch, a cocktail reception at the end) and I had 10 presenters — then each presenter paid only $5k and covered the cost of the venue. I also gave the presenters and sponsors a complete copy of the attendees — all was validated and perfect. Everyone raved about what a successful and beneficial event it was, and that was amazing. Sadly, after a few years of this, people stopped paying to sponsor the event, and would simply just show up to network with the same audience (since there was no admission to attend).

Now, there is a male dominated Company that also hosts similar events. He charges presenters by assets under management (aka — a lot more than the $5k I was charging). He also does not give out the attendees lists. People pay him the higher fee with no questions asked, yet me — who gave more and received nothing for myself, people chose to take advantage of that. What is the difference here? I see only one.

The same with a marketing plan. I know several men in the industry who will not do anything without being paid up front. They simply state that in advance, and people pay them up front. Yet me, I even had a signed contract from a man who hired me to do IR/PR/Marketing for him and after 7 months of working and not making a penny — he simple said, “I just don’t have any money to pay you.” Every month I would invoice him and always believed the story of, “It is coming, my investor is running behind, they are sending me the money soon” and me, being a “nice” female, always just accepted that and did not push it. How did that work out for me? Seven months of work, and it basically cost me money to work for him for free.

This has taught me to have very thick skin and no longer take an BS. People say, “you’ve changed” and sadly, this male dominated industry has made me that way. I can still do all of the work and excel in all that I do, but I will no longer put myself in the position to be taken advantage of the way people have done so in the past.

The ironic part is that when I say, “money up front” or “I will not give you anything until I am paid” people seem shocked by this, yet I don’t know a single male-dominated company who doesn’t function that way, yet they are shocked and turned off when “I” do it? It seems people still want to see the kind, considerate and nice woman — yet will not treat me with the same respect as the male dominated businesses. So how do you find the happy medium?

Can you share a few of the things you have done to gain acceptance among your male peers and the general work community? What did your female co-workers do? Can you share some stories or examples?

As mentioned above, I have stopped being the “nice-guy” to an extent. For example, I have a huge database of over 800k people. This is not a purchased database — it consists of people who have opted in via my newsletters, webinars, conferences, etc. and it consists of investors (both retail and institutional), analysts, brokers and media. Everyone wants access to this database, yet it is my business. I have to continuously say “NO”.

I actually took a course called “Boundaries” where it teaches you to set up boundaries so that people stop taking advantage of you. It was a difficult course, but has made my life much easier.

Female co-workers have also had to grow thick skin. It’s a female thing. We like to be nice and understanding and believe everyone — and that usually bites us, so they’ve had to learn the word “no” and use it and never look back.

What do you think male-oriented organizations can do to enhance their recruiting efforts to attract more women?

Well, this is a little tricky. The same we us woman have to learn to “think like a man” to deal with the men, male-oriented men have to “think like a woman” to get them interested as well. However, I think really just expressing how you value the woman workers and how you, not necessary cater to them, but how they are important to your organization and how you include them as part of your team, will go a long way.

Ok thank you for all of that. Here is the main question of our interview. Based on your opinion and experience, what are the “Five Things You Need To Thrive and Succeed as a Woman In a Male-Dominated Industry?” (Please share a story or example for each.)

If you’re a woman in a male-dominated industry, you know that it can be tough to thrive and succeed. But with the right mindset and approach, it is possible to not only survive, but thrive in these environments. Here are the five things you need to do to be successful as a woman in a male-dominated industry:

1. Believe in yourself

In order to succeed in a man’s world, you have to believe in your own abilities. You can’t let self-doubt creep in and undermine your confidence. Remember that you have just as much to offer as any man in your field, and don’t sell yourself short.

2. Be assertive

In order to get ahead in a male-dominated industry, you have to be assertive. Don’t be afraid to speak up and make your voice heard. Be confident in your opinions and don’t back down from a challenge.

3. Stay focused

It can be easy to get sidetracked or discouraged in a male-dominated industry. There will be times when you feel like you’re not being taken seriously or that you’re not progressing as quickly as you’d like. But it’s important to stay focused on your goals and keep moving forward.

4. Develop thick skin

In any competitive environment, there will be people who try to bring you down. In a male-dominated industry, there may be an extra level of sexism or discrimination that you have to deal with. But it’s important to develop a thick skin and not let the haters get to you.

5. Support other women

One of the best ways to succeed as a woman in a male-dominated industry is to support other women. Lean on your female colleagues and mentors for advice and guidance, and help lift up other women whenever you can. By working together, we can all achieve success.

If you had a close woman friend who came to you with a choice of entering a field that is male-dominated or female-dominated, what would you advise her? Would you advise a woman friend to start a career in a field or industry that’s traditionally been mostly men? Can you explain what you mean?

That can be a little tricky. Believe it or not, female-dominated businesses are not always the best either. I think that since the woman are constantly taught to raise the bar higher to compete in the male-dominant working world, they expect that from everyone, yet they are also competitive due to this as well. I’ve been in more competition from woman in the industry than I’ve ever been with men. It’s just entirely different personalities. I believe woman feel that they have to prove themselves more, so they get super competitive with other woman.

If there is a job with both, that is the ideal choice I believe, but either way, I could only explain my experiences on both sides. With the male dominated area, you have to prove that you are not a push-over. You have to go the extra mile to be taken seriously, you have to have a “take no BS” attitude in your work, and never back down. You have to see yourself as one of the men. In the female-dominated area, you have to know that there will be competition, whether visible or not. Women will try and steal credit for things, or do whatever is necessary to get ahead. They don’t always see one another as “equal”, so sadly, that applies to both male and female dominant areas.

My best advice is to do the best that you can, have that “take no BS” attitude on bother sides, look out for “you”, strive for perfection, and in the end — if you do all of that — it will outshine all of the nonsense in between.

Have you seen things change for women working in male-dominated industries, over the past ten years? How do you anticipate that it might improve in the future? Can you please explain what you mean?

Well, in this day in age, there are changes everywhere. It is no longer simply a man vs woman. It is now man vs. woman vs. Agender vs. Bigender vs. Cisgender vs. Transgender vs. Nonbinary, and so many more. It’s made even hiring someone a difficult task since you are not even sure how to approach the subject on a job application. I always feel that whoever you are, whatever sexual identity than you align yourself with — shouldn’t matter. The quality of your work should be all that matters. I’m not sure if that is how the rest of the world see it, but I do think that by expanding the reach of “how someone identifies themselves” is opening the door to more widely accepted forms of domination and that is a good thing.

We are very blessed that some very prominent names in Business, VC funding, Sports, and Entertainment read this column. Is there a person in the world, or in the US with whom you would love to have a private breakfast or lunch with, and why? He or she might just see this if we tag them.

I would have loved to have lunch with Clint Eastwood. I think he is a great actor and being a movie director also, I would love to pick his brain. I have written some books, but my latest book, that I am seeking a publisher for is a Manuscript. Clint Eastwood directed and starred in a movie that entails a lot of what this books is about, what happened to me. I think since he directed and starred in the movie, he obviously can relate to what I endured to an extent. I believe this book would make for a great movie, so I would love to have lunch with him to talk about it and hear his thoughts.

Thank you for these fantastic insights. We greatly appreciate the time you spent on this.

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